That’s disgusting.Īnd I know I’m going to be met with backlash for telling my story. I didn’t understand I was being taken advantage of. Because the emotional maturity isn’t there. I’m glad (ugh) that at least they waited until I was of legal age, but was there anyone they didn’t wait for? I can strongly and safely say that as an ADULT at the age of 24 I view anyone under the age of 20 as a child still and I would NEVER look at them in a sexual manner. As an adult in her mid-20s I now know how disgusting this was.
But I was in college so it never happened.Įventually I got a boyfriend and SN and I stopped talking. I said I wouldn’t unless I was his official girlfriend or he paid for me to fly out. Talked about me going out to Cali to stay with him for a week or two. In between conventions we would text regularly. This would become a regular occourance at that covention each year until they got banned from the convention for hooking up with convention staff. The night that followed was the same, but instead my shift ended early. They were supportive- except one who thought it was weird that a grown man would go after such a young girl. I, of course, texted all of my friends who were fans. Before he left, he kissed me and told me not to tell anyone. He tried convincing me to skip out on part of my shift which again, I declined. I always get my own room.” I reminded him that I was working until 8am. He insisted and said “it’s only me staying there. At around 4:45am he asked if I wanted to come back to his hotel room, which at the time i said no. I attended the show that Friday night and we talked until nearly 5am as I was on patrol duty. But I do know this ended with him giving me his phone number and asking to hang out after the show. I don’t remember much as this was 6 years ago and it was a loud convention dealers room. He called me over to their booth where I greeted everyone before starting a conversation with him. SN had kept his word and immediately recognized me working. I said yes and he said he would “make sure to visit me there.”įinally it’s October and Y*umacon has come. Later, I was asked by SN if I would be attending Y*umacon, the local convention. I didn’t think much of it because I was a DUMB TEENAGER. I was met with a laugh and a “too bad.” Before being shoo’d away to work. I was told that I had to tell them so I did. Cheekily, I asked “how old do I look?” Since people usually guessed wrong. At the age of 17 I probably looked about 13-14 with makeup on. The conversation started out casual: just the simple “how are you? What’s your name? Do you live around here? What’s your favorite song? Etc” before the guys eventually asked “how old are you?” Now, I have a baby face. I just assumed they needed some of the waters I hadn’t put out yet, so I obliged. I was busy walking by to get everything set up but apparently SN and MR had asked me to come over. During the setup for the meet and greet the band had come in to sit down. I was friends with the host of the event and asked if I could help out which was granted. I remember that SPG was coming to my town in 2013 for a holiday special and I was SO excited to have a chance to possibly meet the band. Since MR and SN are no longer with SPG since their shitty behavior has come to light- I want to share my story since I’m seeing a lot of people saying “it was just them being friendly, who cares?”
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